How to Homeschool Kindergarten

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The first year of homeschooling can feel exciting and overwhelming. When I started, I had three kids ages five, two and newborn. I was overwhelmed, and I thought, “What in the world am I doing?” That’s when I decided to focus on the basics, and it really paid off.

My first year of kindergarten was over thirty years ago. The good news is that my oldest three kids are now adults. All of them are doing extremely well. Two have wonderful spouses and children. They all have great jobs, good friends, and exciting hobbies. Most of all, my adult children love learning, love our family, and love God. 

At the time, I didn’t think I knew what I was doing, but looking back I see that my top priorities led to success. That’s the good news, friends! Kindergarten doesn’t have to be complicated. The very simple choices you make during kindergarten are the exact building blocks that can lead to growing life-long learners!

Don’t Get Overwhelmed

…and don’t worry if your child is “keeping up.”

If you happen to do an internet search on “homeschooling schedules and curriculum,” the millions of results can be overwhelming. There are thousands of ideas for daily schedules, and even more ideas for the best curriculum choices. How can you ever choose? Worries fill your mind, and you wonder if your child will “keep up.”

After homeschooling for more than thirty years—including homeschooling seven children at one time—I can tell you something that will hopefully give you peace: Your goal isn’t to recreate school at home. Your goal is to raise a child who loves God, loves learning, and loves being with you. Kindergarten is the perfect year to slow down, start simple, and enjoy the journey. If you are brand new to homeschooling, here is exactly how to start, step by step.

Step 1: Remember What Matters Most (People Over Schedules)

The most important rule of a homeschool routine is simple: Don’t let the schedule rule you. A schedule should serve your family, not the other way around.

Try planning four formal school days each week and saving one day for field trips, library visits, nature walks, playgroups, or serving others. Some of our children’s favorite school memories happened outside our house.

Also, don’t be afraid of rabbit trails or redirection. When you leave room for the unexpected, you leave room for the Holy Spirit to move in your day. If a morning starts off rough, you have the freedom to pause, go outside, or share a quick snack. By building flexibility into your week, you teach your children that forming relationships always matters more than checking boxes.

Step 2: Keep Your Priorities Simple

If I were homeschooling kindergarten again today, these would be my priorities:

• Bible
• Phonics
• Reading aloud
• Handwriting
• Basic math

Everything else can happen naturally in everyday life. Science happens while digging for worms. History happens through great books. Music happens while singing. Art happens while painting, coloring, and creating. Life skills happen while baking cookies and folding laundry. You do not need a massive stack of textbooks for a five-year-old.

Step 3: Focus on Phonics

One reading specialist commented that she often sees parents spend lots of time reading to children—but not enough time teaching phonics. I think that’s excellent advice.

Read aloud every single day. But also spend intentional time helping your child connect letters and sounds. Strong phonics instruction makes reading, writing, and spelling much easier later. By breaking reading down into its smallest parts through short, daily phonics games or lessons, you give your child the tools to unlock thousands of stories independently.

Step 4: Keep Lessons Short

Kindergartners don’t need long lessons. Their attention spans are short, and their bodies are built to move.

Instead of trying to finish every worksheet, watch your child. When they’re engaged, stop. Leave them excited for tomorrow rather than pushing them to the point of frustration. Ten to twenty minutes is often enough for one subject. Learning should feel enjoyable—not exhausting.

Step 5: Read Constantly

If I could only give one piece of homeschool advice, it would be this: Read more books. Many subjects can be learned through wonderful stories.

When we open a book together, vocabulary grows naturally. Character develops. Curiosity grows. Conversations happen. Some of our richest homeschool discussions started with a picture book. Sitting side by side on the couch, sharing a story builds a shared family culture that workbooks simply cannot replicate.

Step 6: Don’t Be Afraid to Play

Do not feel guilty when your school day looks like play. Play isn’t taking a break from learning. Play is learning for a young child. Children learn beautifully through:

• Building with blocks (exploring physics and spatial awareness)
• Pretending and role-playing
• Nature walks
• Painting, coloring, and creating
• Cooking and baking
• Board games (practicing math, turn-taking, and critical thinking)
• Dancing in the living room
• Helping around the house

A Simple Kindergarten Schedule

To help you visualize your week, here is an example of what a balanced, gentle routine can look like.

Monday–Thursday Routine

• Bible & Prayer (10–15 min): Devotional, scripture memory, and praying together.
• Read Aloud (20 min): A chapter book or beautiful picture books.
• Phonics (15–20 min): Short, interactive lesson or reading game.
• Handwriting (10 min): Tracing letters, drawing shapes, or practicing their name.
• Math (15–20 min): Counting objects, playing math games, or a quick workbook page.
• Outside Play (Lots!): Running, climbing, exploring, and fresh air.
• Enrichment (Flexible): Art, music, science, cooking, nature, or life skills.

Friday: Day of Discovery

Keep Fridays completely fun and flexible:

• Library visits or museum trips
• Field trips or visiting the zoo
• Park days and nature walks
• Visiting grandparents
• Baking together
• Service projects
• Reading lots of books

Give Yourself Grace

Your homeschool won’t look like anyone else’s. Some weeks you’ll finish every lesson. Some weeks you’ll only read books and go to the park. Both are okay. Both are school.

Children don’t remember perfectly completed lesson plans. Instead, they remember cuddling on the couch while Mom read another chapter. They remember baking bread. They remember collecting leaves. They remember laughing together.

One Last Thought

When people ask me what made the biggest difference in our homeschool across thirty-five years, they often expect me to name a specific curriculum or an organizational hack.

Instead, I tell them this: We read together. We talked together. We prayed together. We explored together. And we enjoyed one another. This builds an education and a family.

It is vital to remember that kindergarten is the foundation on which the rest of your homeschool years will be built. Because of this, the main focus should be fostering a true love for learning. Cultivating this sense of wonder and delight in the early years sets a joyful tone for the decades of discovery ahead. As we read in the Bible:

“These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.” — Deuteronomy 6:6-7

Embracing the Journey Ahead

As you begin this wonderful journey of homeschooling your kindergarten student, take a deep breath. You truly have everything you need to succeed. The simple moments spent reading on the couch, exploring the backyard, and learning about God’s world build an incredible foundation. When you prioritize relationships and keep your days simple, you give your child a gift that will last a lifetime. Remember the wisdom found in Scripture: “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it” (Proverbs 22:6). Your primary goal is simply to guide their heart toward the Lord and foster a genuine joy in discovery.

A Prayer for Your Homeschool

Dear Heavenly Father,

Thank You for the beautiful gift of children and the absolute privilege of guiding their education. Please grant deep peace to the parent reading these words today. Remove any feelings of overwhelm or anxiety about checking every single box. Help them to see the wonder in small, everyday moments. Give them the patience to handle challenging mornings and the joy to celebrate tiny victories. Guide their daily routine and let Your Holy Spirit fill their home with love, laughter, and a sincere desire to know You more. Lord, bless their homeschool and knit their family closer together this year.

In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Helpful Resource for Your Journey

If you want to dig deeper into building a joyful and simple learning environment, I highly recommend reading Homeschool Basics. My friend Kristi Clover and I teamed up to gather the best tried-and-true advice from our combined decades of experience to help you get started and stay the course.

We wrote this book to provide practical tools that take the unnecessary pressure off your shoulders so you can focus on the heart rather than just academics. We cover a wide range of topics to support your family:

• Top ten tips for a successful first year
• Strategies for planning your schedule with absolute confidence
• Advice on balancing your housekeeping and lessons
• Ways to teach multiple children at the same time
• Ideas for helping your child develop a life-long love of learning

Homeschooling can truly transform your life, your home, and your family by preparing your children for the life God called them to live. If you are feeling overwhelmed or simply need a fresh dose of inspiration, this guide will remind you that you have exactly what it takes to succeed.

An Exciting Opportunity

Have you ever dreamed of walking the cobblestone streets of Europe and stepping right into the pages of history? I would love to invite you to join me for a special adventure in August 2027. We are heading to the breathtaking city of Prague!

Writing historical fiction and navigating the homeschool journey has shown me that a beautiful adventure begins when we step into the very places where history was made. 

The 2027 Prague Experience offers three unique paths to fit your heart’s calling:

• The Mission Experience: Serve alongside local ministries and build meaningful relationships within the community.
• The Homeschool Experience: Bring history, literature, culture, and faith to life through immersive education for your family.
• The Leisure Experience: Take in the stunning architecture, enjoy authentic Czech cuisine, and share wonderful fellowship.

We will discover historic landmarks and celebrate a rich Christian heritage together. The itinerary is being finalized right now, and there is no obligation to simply learn more.

Join the priority list today to receive early registration opportunities, pricing details, and special updates directly from me!